1 thought on ““Many people are old, only to find out: holding the elderly is unrealistic at all.” What do you think?”
Adam
Auntie and four sisters righteous Jinlan, and met with the pension of the back mountain in the village in the village. As a result, they found that the pension of the newspaper was simply unrealistic. Come. When the aunt was 34 years old, his uncle died due to the invalid help of the advanced cancer, leaving a six -year -old son. In order to make money to make a living, she applied for a local factory to work. At that time, there were many peers in the factory. After spending two years with her colleagues, she had the best time to get along with her four peers and lost her husband like her. Because they think that everyone has the same encounters, they are all poor women, and they have common topics, so they decide to make sense to be sisters and meet, and find a pure place after retirement, and settle together in their old age. At that time, the auntie became righteous with them, ranking second, and the aunt ranked third. Because the sisters accompanied each other, all five of them worked in the factory until retirement. as before they accompanied the elderly, they already had experience in the factory for more than 20 years, so they all felt that they were difficult to distinguish with their sisters, and they urgently found pension when they retired. After a month of searching and comparison, they finally chose to set up a luxury house on the back mountain of our village. as when their five sisters were just living together, their lives were very happy and happy. They fed poultry every day, sang dancing, and exercised together. Almost all life was synchronized. However, in the first winter they just lived together, because the weather was too cold, a sister had a cold, but because of living together, the distance was too close, which eventually caused the other four sisters to be contagious. For this reason, they made the corresponding countermeasures. They invited the architect to build a small house next to the mansion. As long as there is the situation of the sisters sick, let the sick sisters live alone to prevent the illness from transmitting the illness to the illness to infected with the illness to the illness to infected with the illness to the infection of the illness to the illness. Other sisters. In this way, they have been working together for thirteen years. At that time, they were old, and some sisters had difficulty living by themselves. So they invited two nanny to be responsible for housework, and they were only responsible for entertainment and exercise every day. However, because they are concerned about their children and relatives, each time relatives or children have any problems or feasts, they will rush back to participate, but because they live on the mountains and they are old, they are inconvenient. In order to solve this problem, they bought a van and invited a driver to make the driver responsible for going to the city to shop and pick up them every day. We all know that the years are not forgiven. The situation of life is alive. since one sister died, three sisters left the world within two years. In the end, only my aunt and her four sisters were left. They lived on the mountain and recalled the happiness of the sisters every day. At the same time, at the same time, the two of them would have an inexplicable sense of fear, so the aunt and her four girls chose to go down the mountain to go home to their elderly. Nowadays, the aunt is 78 years old. She relies on her breeding and accumulated pensions on the mountain at home, hires a nanny to take care of her old age. She said that at home, although there is no kind of lively atmosphere of holding the elderly, but there are few things and cleanliness, this method is really suitable for pension, because the elderly pensions need to be pure. I. After telling me the experience of holding myself with the sisters with the sisters, I analyzed and summarized it from it that there are also disadvantages of holding the elderly in the elderly. The benefits of holding the elderly, the author summarizes the following three. The first benefit of the pension of the group is the lively and happy. Because the people who are chatting are living together, people will chat with themselves every day, so they will not be alone. Instead, they will gather together because they gather more people, so the tricks of entertainment will become more, so they will feel lively and happy. The second benefit of the pension of the group. Some people can discuss with things and have a response to each other. Because people live together, and everyone is a good friend who chats, they encounter things in their homes, they will discuss each other, find ways to deal with it, and at the same time can take care of each other in life. The third benefit of the pension of the group is not disturbing the life of the children and can rest assured that the children can be assured. Because they will not choose to be in a sisters’ house, they will not disturb the lives of their children. At the same time, several of their good friends live together and take care of each other. The children will be very assured. But there are advantages and disadvantages. The author believes that the disadvantages brought by the pension of the group are greater than profit. Therefore, the pension of holding the group is not an ideal choice. The first cause of the unsatisfactory care of the group, the condition will be infected. We all know that with age, people’s resistance and immunity will continue to decline. Therefore, it is easy to get sick. If you hold the elderly, only one elderly person is sick, and all the elderly will be contagious. If it is a minor disease, such as a cold, it can be easily solved. If the serious illness is infected, it may be in danger to their own lives. Methods, and some diseases are sudden, and I don’t know when infected. Also, the physical quality of the old people is different. After some old people are infected with a cold, she can push the past, but others may not be able to go. The second reason for the unsatisfactory pension of the group is that the travel is inconvenient and troublesome. Because they are concerned about their children and relatives, every time they have something to do at home, they have to rush home from the place where they live in the group, and the place where the elderly cares is not close to everyone’s home. They are already older. It is inconvenient to catch up and forth. It at the same time, if a person’s home has a big deal, such as her son or grandson gets married, then when she goes home to attend the wedding, everyone has to attend. Torture. And if a person has something to do, everyone will be anxious for her, so things will become more. The elderly’s elderly needs to be clean, and it is often rushing back and forth and often something happens. Therefore, the author believes that the way of holding the elderly care is not an ideal way of pension. The third reason for the unsatisfactory care of the pension, there is no banquet in the world. Life is alive, life, sickness and death are the common sense of people. Holding the elderly, one day, someone will leave the world first. At that time, the last or last two elderly people will touch the scene and be excessively affected by the health of the body. may also think of the partners who have left the world every day. Because they live together every day when they are alive, the people who survive will feel that those who have left will come back to find themselves to accompany them, so they will be afraid. The author believes that if the comprehensive analysis, the elderly in the group is beneficial but there are disadvantages, and the disadvantages are greater than the benefits, so the pension of the group is simply unrealistic. If you want to hold a group pension, you should go to the nursing home for the pension. There are at least professional nursing staff in the nursing home, and it can also save expenses. Many years ago, some people raised the problem of holding a group to warm up the pension after they were old. It seemed to see this phenomenon in a TV show. Remember to be an old couple. I bought a single villa in a certain place. Because there are many rooms, I can’t live again. In this way, consider recruiting some elderly people to hold groups together. In actual operation. I also met many old people. Participated in their career in the elderly. But the time passed. Some elderly people exited. Then he started recruiting some elderly people. But in the end, they all ended their activities with unwavering The original intention of holding the pension of the Touer was good. Because they are currently the only children. After the children got married, they had a heavy burden, and they all had their own small families. It is really difficult to take care of the four elderly people. Then relying on holding the elderly at the atmosphere of taking care of each other and helping each other between the elderly. Good people have both mutual help and care, but also have a certain scope of activities. You can also make some new friends, of course, it is a good thing. But why these pensions eventually went to the situation of scattered fire. Because each old man has his own personality and his own living habits, he also has his own direction in the contact person. The method of using a group to warm up is to match another personality, temperament personality and living habits, and match together. For a long time, it is likely to have contradictions. Moreover, the elderly have formed their own personality in their long -term life. So the elderly who hold the elderly in the end of the elderly can end after all. . As the saying goes, people are different, and the flowers are red. The heart is similar, the relationship is far away, the sex is different, and the interest is different. As the saying goes, the old is still small, sometimes, sometimes, sometimes troubles, and worry about more trouble. This should be the inherent reason that the subject said “holding the elderly, which is unrealistic at all”. The in real life, you can respect each other for a lifetime, love at the beginning of your love, noisy, noisy, unsatisfactory couple and wife and wife, it can be said that it is rare and one hundred miles. For decades, noisy, stumbling, and together with couples, you can hope that a group of groups and unchanged groups are different and unchanged. Even if there are, you can not be required. The family has a difficult scripture, and all the households have no way of passing. Due to the restrictions on their own scenes, physical and economic conditions, it is difficult to have standards and ways to be known for their own care and way of care, and can only be appropriate because of the time and reality. Sometimes it is not reconciling. A friendly neighbors around me had such confusion. The two brothers, the family scene is good, but the career is very busy, and there is no time to take care of the old mother. The two brothers sent their mother to the nursing home several times, and their mother returned strongly. Rent a separate house to ask someone to wait, the mother’s temperament, drove the nanny several times, have to live in the two children back and forth. The old man couldn’t lose his face, not to deal with the nursing home, and was seriously incompatible with the two daughter -in -law. The as the aging of our country is getting closer, it is imminent to discuss a variety of pension channels. Regardless of the elderly in the home, or community groups, pension institutions, etc., they can only vary from person to person and tailor them. Elderly friends must also be based on reality, give up fantasy, and be considerate of children, families, and society. Those who like to be quiet, just have the elderly, like to be lively, go to the nursing home, and choose the personality, interest, and equal conditions in all aspects. Happy, generous, and optimistic every day, 0K.
The size of the current empty nest and lonely elderly people is large. On the contrary, the number of nursing homes is difficult to meet the demand, so the pension of the group came into being. Is this “beautiful” old -age care method reliable? Let’s analyze it through related information. A newspaper launched a survey of “Do you want to hold a group for the elderly”. The result shows that nearly 90 % of the citizens are interested in and expressed their support and want to try. However, everyone also knows that the proportion of failure is also very large. More than 70%of the elderly are worried that the problem in the pension of the group is not easy to solve, and it is not long. , the benefits of holding the elderly. The old man participated in mutual assistance, found a like -minded friend, has a fulfilling life and a better mood. The biggest benefit is to reduce the risk of disease, especially at night, and someone around him when he encounters an emergency. . What is the problem of the existence of the elderly in the group? Some citizens who participated in the elderly in the group summarized the following points: 1. People’s living habits are very different, and they are prone to contradictions; 2. Different economic conditions cause psychological imbalances, and some people with good conditions show off. 3. Some people have a loss of losses to take advantage of such small accounts, and it is difficult to coexist over time. . In general, the elderly care of the group looks beautiful, as people say: the ideal is very happy, the reality is very skinny. Although people are very interested in this, many people can’t get off the determination to act in the end. Different living habits have become the biggest obstacles. Let’s imagine that there are still many contradictions for a couple to form a family, not to mention the temporary combination of the elderly from different families. As the saying goes, “old and young”, no one wants to “grieve” themselves at this age, which shows the difficulty. For the elderly, I personally believe that in addition to pension and medical insurance policies, the state needs greater policy support in the construction of pension institutions. The huge and arduous pension career cannot be successful without the participation of the “national team”. With the role of the “national team”, and supplemented by other social forces, the career career has hope. If so, it is the luck of the elderly career, the luck of the elderly!
This pension, beautiful vision, naturally in front of reality, it is naturally vulnerable. Men people are old, even if they can take care of themselves, their personalities will inevitably change. Relatives, friends or classmates who have been playing together will have some contradictions in playing. Moreover, it is easy to talk about a pot of spoon. Over time, gradually getting old. Someone cannot take care of themselves. One day, two days, and long days, it is not possible to come over. There is no filial son in front of the bed. Men people are old and there are many troubles. Nowadays, children can’t expect it. They can only rely on themselves to find ways to overcome difficulties. You can take care of yourself, community pension is the best choice. I hope that the government can develop support for community pension services, set up regulatory agencies, allow the elderly to ask for exports, and let the service machines have chapters to follow. Is when you cannot take care of yourself, medical care services are the best choices. Establish a tranquility medical service system to allow the elderly to go to the last section of life as much as possible. I think the pension of the group is unrealistic. It is okay to travel together for a few days, and it is really impossible to live together. Why? In different living habits of each person, including eating habits, hygiene habits, consumption habits, and schedules, they can be tolerant and considerate in a short time. Can’t. The elderly people who can participate in these activities have independent economic income, have the ability to arrange their own lives, and those who are good at being the master. Everyone is good at being the master, who listens? Therefore, I think the pension of the regiment is unrealistic.
This pension can not be said to be unrealistic. At least, he stays at home at least more lonely. Holding the elderly care is mainly aimed at low income and cannot afford low -income groups in nursing homes. It is an effective way. But these groups can take care of themselves. Everyone has played well, has a good temper, rents a set of farmhouses, grows vegetables to raise chickens, gathered together to play cards, jumps with elderly dances, Lala family, communication, and good health is good for physical and mental health. If you get it together, you will be separated if you ca n’t close it.
The first steps have taken the first step to find the targets of holding a group to warm the elderly. In our hometown, there are several elderly people such. They are originally good friends. Some are colleagues, some are sisters who grow up together, and some are good friends who know on the Internet.
. They travel together every year, visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and take photos of their most beautiful pictures. I don’t want to find an old and useless man to worry about themselves. We several sisters together, very happy every day, work together, play together, dance together, and exercise together. Here and the advantages and disadvantages of each person have been revealed for a long time, the living habits are different, and the lifestyle is different. For example, some people like to eat sweet, some people like spicy food, some people like to eat big fish and meat, some people like to eat vegetarian dishes, different personalities and different faith. It people are acute, some people are chronic, and some people eat fasting Buddha every day. Some people believe in Christianity, Catholicism, with different ideas.
The hygiene habits are different. Some people are organized in the room in the room. They change clothes every day, but some people are lazy and do not want to move. The concept of life is different. Some living conditions are better. Buy some delicious foods. Some living conditions are poor and saved. Some people always like to take advantage of them. They eat white and even eat each other’s snacks. In some people spend more money, some people saves more, such as living expenses, water and electricity costs are uneven, some are very saved, some people are wasteful, and some people do not implement the AA system. balance. This is difficult to adjust, such as raising small animals and breeding flowers. Some people say that they will be allergic and do not like it. Some people hold the kitten on the bed to sleep, and they can endure it. No one can stand it after a long time.
The relationship is not simple. Some sisters see the opposite sex and have a good impression. They like to make friends with him, bring him to the room, and even secretly go out for a date. and some people hate these things and cannot accept them. The rural areas are relatively remote. If they are sick, they are troublesome. They are also difficult to take care of them. They are unwilling to take care of their family members. As sisters of friends, who wants to take care of a patient?
This pension is a hot topic in the post -60s post -60s. In reality, it is far from what you think of it because I have a personal body. The retirement for almost 10 years. There are a lot of friends from various types of pension around me. It ’s better to play a simple metaphor. Just like when everyone was young when she was young, she would inevitably be as good as a good girlfriend or friend. The fingertips are marrying, but in fact, this possibility in the future is almost zero. The same reason, many people often talk to friends who have good friends before retiring, but most people have gone after retirement. Even if a few can make a piece of pension, it is not satisfactory, and there are too many reasons for it. The thought of the elderly care of the group is very good, who takes the lead and who organizes? Since you want to hold a group for the elderly, you must have a organizer, otherwise it is a plate of loose sand. This organizer must also have personal personality charm and absolute authority in the circle of friends. Imagine that everyone is the same as retirees. With absolute power, you can be ordinary people after retirement. You can call a hundred responses when you go to work. Why do you still have to obey your order after retirement, unless you pay, including time, money, and use your own network resources. Wait, it may be risks at the same time when serving the public. Who wants to do this difficulty? It may say, discuss it, that’s okay, I tell you that there are six or seven family members of my husband’s friends, and have been planning to hold the elderly in 2013. One of them was impatient and went to Max last summer to go to Max. The ideas of the elderly care of the group are very full. The reality is very skinny. There is an example of holding a group pension in my circle of friends. It is already 8 years ago. It happened that our grandsons needed people to take care of them in those two years. I invited me to join me the second time I was resigned. I did not expect that when I turned around and wanted to join two years later, their group had grown chicken half a year ago. For various reasons, they went their own. It has been turned into black. Later, I asked from a friend. The reason for things was like this. The classmates in my classmates who hold the elderly career, one of which is a female classmate’s middle -aged bereavement, but the economic conditions are the best in this circle. A long time ago, she opened the hometown not far from the city. A farm, for this reason, she turned off the business and pulled a few good friends together and took the lead in forming this group of pension circles. 1. Everyone’s own conditions are different This in this circle have six couples, 13 years old men and women, everyone usually walks very close, but really starts to live in a small range, just start living in a small range. At the beginning, I felt very uncoordinated, and it was also retired in one year. The gap between the pension was very different. There were differences in living habits, eating habits, and hygiene habits. Especially the physical conditions were different. People with good physical conditions would always be in this small environment. The person who pays the most will inevitably deepen the grievances over time. After all, there is no blood relationship. Everyone understands it. 2. The hobbies are not completely consistent This can gather together to hold the elderly. The biggest consensus is the trust of the character with each other. It is difficult to last for a long time without common hobbies. There is a layman in their circle, and there is a person who likes to sing and dance more than ten friends every day. From the third month, they have bumped into each other, and they are not pleasing to each other until they look at each other. 3. The restraint of the children, when I walk, I will scatter The banquets in the world. Everyone’s family conditions have different family conditions. Maybe it will become jealous. After the freshness of the elderly retirement, more and more people will go to the children’s house to live in the children’s house across the three places. In less than a year, this small circle has reached the end. 4. When the elderly are also distracted, if they do n’t get it well, they will be the poodle This finally mentioned the initiator. Everyone has been eating in a small circle for a long time, living and entertainment, and I do n’t know from that time. Another female classmate feels a bit ambiguous between her husband and her. Good is a chicken hair … What kind of person is suitable for holding the elderly? It is not completely unreasonable to propose a model of holding a group pension. There are advantages and disadvantages in this way. The key is that this model is suitable for you. Today, our generation will face the question of how to pension. There is a certain limitations of the pension of holding the group, and the pension of the group is not suitable for everyone. So what kind of person is suitable for holding the group for the elderly? 1. Holding the group for the elderly is not the ultimate goal of the elderly. It can only be a transition period from retirement to pension If the transition period of pension pension is easy to understand. If you have the ability to pay each other, this requires you to have certain conditions, no major illness, at least in a state of self -care. If this one cannot be sure, who can willingly be willing to unilaterally give you you unilaterally for you. Pay, so I think the first age cannot exceed 75 years. 2. When forming a team, the number of people should be three or five families. The oversized tour groups, whether it is the management of various aspects such as eating, housing and transportation, is very different from the management in the management. Besides, the greater risk of the elderly, the greater the butterfly effect of a person’s base. 3. Brothers and sisters with blood relationships are most suitable for holding the elderly . The saying goes: “Fighting brothers and sons and sons”. The superior conditions, the so -called blood is thicker than water, the younger brother and sister who takes care of the younger brother is justified, and the older brother and sister do some things that can do it for granted. This writing at the end: I can still move now and have the ability to quickly prepare for myself. Is it not to say that our generation is the last generation of respecting parents and the first generation abandoned by children? Before the cemetery, the money and assets must not be divided into the descendants first
Auntie and four sisters righteous Jinlan, and met with the pension of the back mountain in the village in the village. As a result, they found that the pension of the newspaper was simply unrealistic. Come.
When the aunt was 34 years old, his uncle died due to the invalid help of the advanced cancer, leaving a six -year -old son. In order to make money to make a living, she applied for a local factory to work. At that time, there were many peers in the factory. After spending two years with her colleagues, she had the best time to get along with her four peers and lost her husband like her.
Because they think that everyone has the same encounters, they are all poor women, and they have common topics, so they decide to make sense to be sisters and meet, and find a pure place after retirement, and settle together in their old age. At that time, the auntie became righteous with them, ranking second, and the aunt ranked third. Because the sisters accompanied each other, all five of them worked in the factory until retirement.
as before they accompanied the elderly, they already had experience in the factory for more than 20 years, so they all felt that they were difficult to distinguish with their sisters, and they urgently found pension when they retired. After a month of searching and comparison, they finally chose to set up a luxury house on the back mountain of our village.
as when their five sisters were just living together, their lives were very happy and happy. They fed poultry every day, sang dancing, and exercised together. Almost all life was synchronized. However, in the first winter they just lived together, because the weather was too cold, a sister had a cold, but because of living together, the distance was too close, which eventually caused the other four sisters to be contagious.
For this reason, they made the corresponding countermeasures. They invited the architect to build a small house next to the mansion. As long as there is the situation of the sisters sick, let the sick sisters live alone to prevent the illness from transmitting the illness to the illness to infected with the illness to the illness to infected with the illness to the infection of the illness to the illness. Other sisters. In this way, they have been working together for thirteen years. At that time, they were old, and some sisters had difficulty living by themselves.
So they invited two nanny to be responsible for housework, and they were only responsible for entertainment and exercise every day. However, because they are concerned about their children and relatives, each time relatives or children have any problems or feasts, they will rush back to participate, but because they live on the mountains and they are old, they are inconvenient.
In order to solve this problem, they bought a van and invited a driver to make the driver responsible for going to the city to shop and pick up them every day. We all know that the years are not forgiven. The situation of life is alive.
since one sister died, three sisters left the world within two years. In the end, only my aunt and her four sisters were left. They lived on the mountain and recalled the happiness of the sisters every day. At the same time, at the same time, the two of them would have an inexplicable sense of fear, so the aunt and her four girls chose to go down the mountain to go home to their elderly.
Nowadays, the aunt is 78 years old. She relies on her breeding and accumulated pensions on the mountain at home, hires a nanny to take care of her old age. She said that at home, although there is no kind of lively atmosphere of holding the elderly, but there are few things and cleanliness, this method is really suitable for pension, because the elderly pensions need to be pure.
I. After telling me the experience of holding myself with the sisters with the sisters, I analyzed and summarized it from it that there are also disadvantages of holding the elderly in the elderly. The benefits of holding the elderly, the author summarizes the following three.
The first benefit of the pension of the group is the lively and happy. Because the people who are chatting are living together, people will chat with themselves every day, so they will not be alone. Instead, they will gather together because they gather more people, so the tricks of entertainment will become more, so they will feel lively and happy.
The second benefit of the pension of the group. Some people can discuss with things and have a response to each other. Because people live together, and everyone is a good friend who chats, they encounter things in their homes, they will discuss each other, find ways to deal with it, and at the same time can take care of each other in life.
The third benefit of the pension of the group is not disturbing the life of the children and can rest assured that the children can be assured. Because they will not choose to be in a sisters’ house, they will not disturb the lives of their children. At the same time, several of their good friends live together and take care of each other. The children will be very assured.
But there are advantages and disadvantages. The author believes that the disadvantages brought by the pension of the group are greater than profit. Therefore, the pension of holding the group is not an ideal choice.
The first cause of the unsatisfactory care of the group, the condition will be infected. We all know that with age, people’s resistance and immunity will continue to decline. Therefore, it is easy to get sick. If you hold the elderly, only one elderly person is sick, and all the elderly will be contagious.
If it is a minor disease, such as a cold, it can be easily solved. If the serious illness is infected, it may be in danger to their own lives. Methods, and some diseases are sudden, and I don’t know when infected.
Also, the physical quality of the old people is different. After some old people are infected with a cold, she can push the past, but others may not be able to go.
The second reason for the unsatisfactory pension of the group is that the travel is inconvenient and troublesome. Because they are concerned about their children and relatives, every time they have something to do at home, they have to rush home from the place where they live in the group, and the place where the elderly cares is not close to everyone’s home. They are already older. It is inconvenient to catch up and forth.
It at the same time, if a person’s home has a big deal, such as her son or grandson gets married, then when she goes home to attend the wedding, everyone has to attend. Torture. And if a person has something to do, everyone will be anxious for her, so things will become more.
The elderly’s elderly needs to be clean, and it is often rushing back and forth and often something happens. Therefore, the author believes that the way of holding the elderly care is not an ideal way of pension.
The third reason for the unsatisfactory care of the pension, there is no banquet in the world. Life is alive, life, sickness and death are the common sense of people. Holding the elderly, one day, someone will leave the world first. At that time, the last or last two elderly people will touch the scene and be excessively affected by the health of the body.
may also think of the partners who have left the world every day. Because they live together every day when they are alive, the people who survive will feel that those who have left will come back to find themselves to accompany them, so they will be afraid.
The author believes that if the comprehensive analysis, the elderly in the group is beneficial but there are disadvantages, and the disadvantages are greater than the benefits, so the pension of the group is simply unrealistic. If you want to hold a group pension, you should go to the nursing home for the pension. There are at least professional nursing staff in the nursing home, and it can also save expenses.
Many years ago, some people raised the problem of holding a group to warm up the pension after they were old. It seemed to see this phenomenon in a TV show. Remember to be an old couple. I bought a single villa in a certain place. Because there are many rooms, I can’t live again. In this way, consider recruiting some elderly people to hold groups together. In actual operation. I also met many old people. Participated in their career in the elderly. But the time passed. Some elderly people exited. Then he started recruiting some elderly people. But in the end, they all ended their activities with unwavering
The original intention of holding the pension of the Touer was good. Because they are currently the only children. After the children got married, they had a heavy burden, and they all had their own small families. It is really difficult to take care of the four elderly people. Then relying on holding the elderly at the atmosphere of taking care of each other and helping each other between the elderly. Good people have both mutual help and care, but also have a certain scope of activities. You can also make some new friends, of course, it is a good thing. But why these pensions eventually went to the situation of scattered fire.
Because each old man has his own personality and his own living habits, he also has his own direction in the contact person. The method of using a group to warm up is to match another personality, temperament personality and living habits, and match together. For a long time, it is likely to have contradictions. Moreover, the elderly have formed their own personality in their long -term life.
So the elderly who hold the elderly in the end of the elderly can end after all.
. As the saying goes, people are different, and the flowers are red. The heart is similar, the relationship is far away, the sex is different, and the interest is different. As the saying goes, the old is still small, sometimes, sometimes, sometimes troubles, and worry about more trouble. This should be the inherent reason that the subject said “holding the elderly, which is unrealistic at all”.
The in real life, you can respect each other for a lifetime, love at the beginning of your love, noisy, noisy, unsatisfactory couple and wife and wife, it can be said that it is rare and one hundred miles. For decades, noisy, stumbling, and together with couples, you can hope that a group of groups and unchanged groups are different and unchanged. Even if there are, you can not be required.
The family has a difficult scripture, and all the households have no way of passing. Due to the restrictions on their own scenes, physical and economic conditions, it is difficult to have standards and ways to be known for their own care and way of care, and can only be appropriate because of the time and reality. Sometimes it is not reconciling. A friendly neighbors around me had such confusion. The two brothers, the family scene is good, but the career is very busy, and there is no time to take care of the old mother. The two brothers sent their mother to the nursing home several times, and their mother returned strongly. Rent a separate house to ask someone to wait, the mother’s temperament, drove the nanny several times, have to live in the two children back and forth. The old man couldn’t lose his face, not to deal with the nursing home, and was seriously incompatible with the two daughter -in -law.
The as the aging of our country is getting closer, it is imminent to discuss a variety of pension channels. Regardless of the elderly in the home, or community groups, pension institutions, etc., they can only vary from person to person and tailor them. Elderly friends must also be based on reality, give up fantasy, and be considerate of children, families, and society. Those who like to be quiet, just have the elderly, like to be lively, go to the nursing home, and choose the personality, interest, and equal conditions in all aspects. Happy, generous, and optimistic every day, 0K.
The size of the current empty nest and lonely elderly people is large. On the contrary, the number of nursing homes is difficult to meet the demand, so the pension of the group came into being. Is this “beautiful” old -age care method reliable? Let’s analyze it through related information. A newspaper launched a survey of “Do you want to hold a group for the elderly”. The result shows that nearly 90 % of the citizens are interested in and expressed their support and want to try. However, everyone also knows that the proportion of failure is also very large. More than 70%of the elderly are worried that the problem in the pension of the group is not easy to solve, and it is not long.
, the benefits of holding the elderly. The old man participated in mutual assistance, found a like -minded friend, has a fulfilling life and a better mood. The biggest benefit is to reduce the risk of disease, especially at night, and someone around him when he encounters an emergency.
. What is the problem of the existence of the elderly in the group? Some citizens who participated in the elderly in the group summarized the following points: 1. People’s living habits are very different, and they are prone to contradictions; 2. Different economic conditions cause psychological imbalances, and some people with good conditions show off. 3. Some people have a loss of losses to take advantage of such small accounts, and it is difficult to coexist over time.
. In general, the elderly care of the group looks beautiful, as people say: the ideal is very happy, the reality is very skinny. Although people are very interested in this, many people can’t get off the determination to act in the end. Different living habits have become the biggest obstacles. Let’s imagine that there are still many contradictions for a couple to form a family, not to mention the temporary combination of the elderly from different families. As the saying goes, “old and young”, no one wants to “grieve” themselves at this age, which shows the difficulty.
For the elderly, I personally believe that in addition to pension and medical insurance policies, the state needs greater policy support in the construction of pension institutions. The huge and arduous pension career cannot be successful without the participation of the “national team”. With the role of the “national team”, and supplemented by other social forces, the career career has hope. If so, it is the luck of the elderly career, the luck of the elderly!
This pension, beautiful vision, naturally in front of reality, it is naturally vulnerable.
Men people are old, even if they can take care of themselves, their personalities will inevitably change. Relatives, friends or classmates who have been playing together will have some contradictions in playing. Moreover, it is easy to talk about a pot of spoon.
Over time, gradually getting old. Someone cannot take care of themselves. One day, two days, and long days, it is not possible to come over. There is no filial son in front of the bed.
Men people are old and there are many troubles. Nowadays, children can’t expect it. They can only rely on themselves to find ways to overcome difficulties. You can take care of yourself, community pension is the best choice. I hope that the government can develop support for community pension services, set up regulatory agencies, allow the elderly to ask for exports, and let the service machines have chapters to follow.
Is when you cannot take care of yourself, medical care services are the best choices. Establish a tranquility medical service system to allow the elderly to go to the last section of life as much as possible.
I think the pension of the group is unrealistic. It is okay to travel together for a few days, and it is really impossible to live together. Why?
In different living habits of each person, including eating habits, hygiene habits, consumption habits, and schedules, they can be tolerant and considerate in a short time. Can’t.
The elderly people who can participate in these activities have independent economic income, have the ability to arrange their own lives, and those who are good at being the master. Everyone is good at being the master, who listens?
Therefore, I think the pension of the regiment is unrealistic.
This pension can not be said to be unrealistic. At least, he stays at home at least more lonely. Holding the elderly care is mainly aimed at low income and cannot afford low -income groups in nursing homes. It is an effective way. But these groups can take care of themselves. Everyone has played well, has a good temper, rents a set of farmhouses, grows vegetables to raise chickens, gathered together to play cards, jumps with elderly dances, Lala family, communication, and good health is good for physical and mental health. If you get it together, you will be separated if you ca n’t close it.
The first steps have taken the first step to find the targets of holding a group to warm the elderly. In our hometown, there are several elderly people such. They are originally good friends. Some are colleagues, some are sisters who grow up together, and some are good friends who know on the Internet.
. They travel together every year, visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and take photos of their most beautiful pictures. I don’t want to find an old and useless man to worry about themselves.
We several sisters together, very happy every day, work together, play together, dance together, and exercise together.
Here and the advantages and disadvantages of each person have been revealed for a long time, the living habits are different, and the lifestyle is different.
For example, some people like to eat sweet, some people like spicy food, some people like to eat big fish and meat, some people like to eat vegetarian dishes, different personalities and different faith.
It people are acute, some people are chronic, and some people eat fasting Buddha every day. Some people believe in Christianity, Catholicism, with different ideas.
The hygiene habits are different. Some people are organized in the room in the room. They change clothes every day, but some people are lazy and do not want to move.
The concept of life is different. Some living conditions are better. Buy some delicious foods. Some living conditions are poor and saved. Some people always like to take advantage of them. They eat white and even eat each other’s snacks.
In some people spend more money, some people saves more, such as living expenses, water and electricity costs are uneven, some are very saved, some people are wasteful, and some people do not implement the AA system. balance.
This is difficult to adjust, such as raising small animals and breeding flowers. Some people say that they will be allergic and do not like it. Some people hold the kitten on the bed to sleep, and they can endure it. No one can stand it after a long time.
The relationship is not simple. Some sisters see the opposite sex and have a good impression. They like to make friends with him, bring him to the room, and even secretly go out for a date.
and some people hate these things and cannot accept them. The rural areas are relatively remote. If they are sick, they are troublesome. They are also difficult to take care of them. They are unwilling to take care of their family members. As sisters of friends, who wants to take care of a patient?
This pension is a hot topic in the post -60s post -60s. In reality, it is far from what you think of it because I have a personal body.
The retirement for almost 10 years. There are a lot of friends from various types of pension around me. It ’s better to play a simple metaphor. Just like when everyone was young when she was young, she would inevitably be as good as a good girlfriend or friend. The fingertips are marrying, but in fact, this possibility in the future is almost zero. The same reason, many people often talk to friends who have good friends before retiring, but most people have gone after retirement. Even if a few can make a piece of pension, it is not satisfactory, and there are too many reasons for it.
The thought of the elderly care of the group is very good, who takes the lead and who organizes? Since you want to hold a group for the elderly, you must have a organizer, otherwise it is a plate of loose sand. This organizer must also have personal personality charm and absolute authority in the circle of friends. Imagine that everyone is the same as retirees. With absolute power, you can be ordinary people after retirement. You can call a hundred responses when you go to work. Why do you still have to obey your order after retirement, unless you pay, including time, money, and use your own network resources. Wait, it may be risks at the same time when serving the public. Who wants to do this difficulty?
It may say, discuss it, that’s okay, I tell you that there are six or seven family members of my husband’s friends, and have been planning to hold the elderly in 2013. One of them was impatient and went to Max last summer to go to Max.
The ideas of the elderly care of the group are very full. The reality is very skinny. There is an example of holding a group pension in my circle of friends. It is already 8 years ago. It happened that our grandsons needed people to take care of them in those two years. I invited me to join me the second time I was resigned. I did not expect that when I turned around and wanted to join two years later, their group had grown chicken half a year ago. For various reasons, they went their own. It has been turned into black. Later, I asked from a friend. The reason for things was like this.
The classmates in my classmates who hold the elderly career, one of which is a female classmate’s middle -aged bereavement, but the economic conditions are the best in this circle. A long time ago, she opened the hometown not far from the city. A farm, for this reason, she turned off the business and pulled a few good friends together and took the lead in forming this group of pension circles.
1. Everyone’s own conditions are different
This in this circle have six couples, 13 years old men and women, everyone usually walks very close, but really starts to live in a small range, just start living in a small range. At the beginning, I felt very uncoordinated, and it was also retired in one year. The gap between the pension was very different. There were differences in living habits, eating habits, and hygiene habits. Especially the physical conditions were different. People with good physical conditions would always be in this small environment. The person who pays the most will inevitably deepen the grievances over time. After all, there is no blood relationship. Everyone understands it.
2. The hobbies are not completely consistent
This can gather together to hold the elderly. The biggest consensus is the trust of the character with each other. It is difficult to last for a long time without common hobbies. There is a layman in their circle, and there is a person who likes to sing and dance more than ten friends every day. From the third month, they have bumped into each other, and they are not pleasing to each other until they look at each other.
3. The restraint of the children, when I walk, I will scatter
The banquets in the world. Everyone’s family conditions have different family conditions. Maybe it will become jealous. After the freshness of the elderly retirement, more and more people will go to the children’s house to live in the children’s house across the three places. In less than a year, this small circle has reached the end.
4. When the elderly are also distracted, if they do n’t get it well, they will be the poodle
This finally mentioned the initiator. Everyone has been eating in a small circle for a long time, living and entertainment, and I do n’t know from that time. Another female classmate feels a bit ambiguous between her husband and her. Good is a chicken hair …
What kind of person is suitable for holding the elderly? It is not completely unreasonable to propose a model of holding a group pension. There are advantages and disadvantages in this way. The key is that this model is suitable for you. Today, our generation will face the question of how to pension. There is a certain limitations of the pension of holding the group, and the pension of the group is not suitable for everyone. So what kind of person is suitable for holding the group for the elderly?
1. Holding the group for the elderly is not the ultimate goal of the elderly. It can only be a transition period from retirement to pension
If the transition period of pension pension is easy to understand. If you have the ability to pay each other, this requires you to have certain conditions, no major illness, at least in a state of self -care. If this one cannot be sure, who can willingly be willing to unilaterally give you you unilaterally for you. Pay, so I think the first age cannot exceed 75 years.
2. When forming a team, the number of people should be three or five families. The oversized tour groups, whether it is the management of various aspects such as eating, housing and transportation, is very different from the management in the management. Besides, the greater risk of the elderly, the greater the butterfly effect of a person’s base.
3. Brothers and sisters with blood relationships are most suitable for holding the elderly
. The saying goes: “Fighting brothers and sons and sons”. The superior conditions, the so -called blood is thicker than water, the younger brother and sister who takes care of the younger brother is justified, and the older brother and sister do some things that can do it for granted.
This writing at the end: I can still move now and have the ability to quickly prepare for myself. Is it not to say that our generation is the last generation of respecting parents and the first generation abandoned by children? Before the cemetery, the money and assets must not be divided into the descendants first